associations.........

every one in our life - personally or professionally.............is 'practically ' associated to us with a'hard core reason'...!!!.....many of them...intentionally.......unintentionally........sometimes......pre - decided....or by our choice ! we all call them as ...'bonds'.....'relationship'........'friendship'......'love'...........etc. etc...absolutely as per our convenience. SO.............! the best way to deal is..........just not get into finding 'that' reason! the pleasure of being unknown, is better than shock of undesired...!

life...is a....GAME....!

Who knows, ...is life a game???
but...one thing is for sure.......life is all about playing 'GAMES'...!!!
we do begin with it all from our childhood...though unrealized.....is the fact.......we r taught just to play......!

but.......no use of fairness in it....WORLD teaches u......... play 'dirty'....!!!!

if thats what is asked for.......give them back.......................... the DIRT...!!!
.....in a way.....they REWARD u for it!!!!!

my goodness....!!!

STOP being good to the people who doesn't deserve it at all....! the more u be good to them....the more they will make u realize that u r a perfect DOORMAT to them ! when someone treats u like a doormat, u don't be wishy-washy or they will make it a habit. Be tactful enough to avoid emotional upheaval, but don't be fuzzy , either!

but...i would rather love to slap them back......obviously with words...though sugarcoated.....!!!

i wish to live my childhood again..............because........we could be just 'ourselves''......unrealized... unknowingly though!!!........i remember few lines from 'mrityunjay' by shivaji sawant...that....'childhood is like an arrow.......once set....and shot from the bow...................................
it never returns...................it never returns...................!
won't i be able to be 'myself'...anymore???

one

you love others....and care others...,
and let others be ......loved and cared....!!!!
but never expect others to love u.....,
because that will take them too far from you...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!